Dating after a vastectomy

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The puncture is so small that it heals without stitches.On the day of the procedure, bring a jockstrap (an athletic supporter) with you, and make sure your genital area is clean.

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When we went to book the actual procedure, I was depressed to learn that Grober had a waiting list of more than three months. And, after all, he was giving me what I had wanted for years: another baby.

My husband had a vasectomy 2 yrs ago, and now we have decided we would like one more.

He is not willing to have a vasectomy reversal but is not opposed to getting pregnant. Has anyone had any success in a natural pregnancy after a vasectomy? Anyway, It is pretty rare, and we are in shock still, but the answer is yes, it CAN happen. We are going to get a sperm check tomorrow just to see how this happened, etc. He was tested every year and there was nothing but a few non motiles.

— I had to get up so early because it was the week after my period and the clinic needed me to come in every morning to find out exactly when I was ovulating. (Later he would tell me that he was shocked and wondered what would happen between us, since we were just dating.) “It’s OK if you never want to see me again,” I said. I wanted a baby in my thirties, and sooner rather than later. The negotiations we had over the timing of having a baby — that is, if he would get a reverse vasectomy. My boyfriend came back from that 18-hole round of golf a changed man.

I was at a stage in my life where, after many failed relationships, I had become brutally honest about what I wanted. I felt like we were characters in , me on the prosecutor’s side, with him on the defense team. I stopped going to the fertility clinic or even thinking about it. And by changed, I mean he was ready to do it, before his nine-month rule. ) I know the odds of getting a hole-in-one are extremely low, but what are the odds that he would be paired up that day with a doctor who performed reverse vasectomies, who also had done it himself, and who convinced him that so many others were doing the same?

About seven weeks into dating, we spent a few nights in a row together. I can say he didn’t run out my front door screaming. I don’t think there’s an appropriate reaction for any guy hearing this, but I do know he didn’t say or do anything inappropriate.

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