After a lot of dates with a lot ofwomen, I noticed two things: #1: It takes a special set of skills and insights to pass a woman’s tests and graduate from first-dater to “boyfriend material,” the kind of man she wants to share fulfilling, long-term intimacy with.#2: The longer I continued to fail these tests, the more I started to feel like something wonderful was missing from my life — also known as having a great GIRLFRIEND.As a matter of fact, that’s usually the joker who can’t rub two nickels together.What’s wrong with the guy in jeans and a T-shirt, driving a Camry, checking his Timex to see exactly when his check is going to hit the bank? Never allow yourself to be impressed by a man’s depreciating assets (cars, clothes, expensive rental apartment). If you’re going to be impressed with material things, at least be smart enough to start with his net worth.That in mind, here come the three secret “tests” that every woman uses (even if she doesn’t realize it) to determine whether you are boyfriend material: Test #1: Are You Present?When it comes to first dates, most guys waste precious time and opportunities with great women by not actually “being there” at all.RELATED: The 4 mistakes that cost this man his marriage Watch out for men who spend money frivolously.I had a woman tell me how flattered she was when her boyfriend booked her a posh hotel room, filled it from corner to corner with freshly cut roses, and had an expensive dress lying across the bed just as a surprise to show her how much he cared about her.
In this article, David De Angelo reveals the three secret “tests” every woman uses (usually without even realizing it) to see if you have “relationship potential.” When it comes to building great relationships with women, some guys have to learn the hard wayand I was one of them.And they didn't waste any time."We had sex the first night we met," he said, before also sharing that he told his new gal-pal, "I think you're the hottest girl in the entire f---ing universe."Smooth. In 2009, the actress was spotted having a lunch date with Adam following her split from model Paul Sculfor.The pair dined together at the Chateau Marmont, and even started off on the right foot by coordinating outfits (both opted for blue jeans and a white top), but that's as far as this love story went.But when it comes to whether she’ll see you as boyfriend material, thoughtfulness takes on a whole other meaning.It’s your ability to pay attention to her in unexpected ways — at unexpected times — because it’s genuinely in your heart to do it. Pick an activity where you won’t have to talk the entire time, like a movie or a sporting event, Kalish says. “The longer you go,” Kalish says, “the more problems you run into.” It should be a no-brainer to avoid thumbing your smartphone during the date. You miss out on the body language and facial cues that will give you a better idea of how she really feels.