It’s the first thing potential dates see, and as this humorous article indicates, it makes a big impression (sometimes unintentionally).It’s either a huge advantage, a huge disadvantage, or a missed opportunity! You can check out this link with a decent round-up of some of the very worst username strategies, but there are a lot of more mundane things that make for bad usernames.Men are quite visual and they’re instantly attracted to women based on what they finds physically attractive.After interviewing over 60,000 single men and women over the years there’s a few common things I can say men really find attractive in women.A reverse username search allows you to locate people using just a username.A reverse username search allows you to find people using a username from any social profile or email address.
I know, I know; none of the sites make it clear enough. Don’t create a totally random one that you gave a mere second’s thought!
None of them force you really take time to think about that step, or let you fill out the other aspects of your profile while you ponder the all-important “username” field and come back to it once the creative juices are flowing. Check out this link about a JDate user who picked an icky name.
I confess I had no idea what “tossed salad” meant, but it turns out it meant something kinda kinky that did not convey what this gal intended.
The first step if you didn’t already know, is to have an attractive online dating profile photo to catch attention in the first place.
Without a great photo the chances are your username won’t even matter.
I’ve had ever so many users come to me with usernames that either convey something totally off (wrong gender, for example) or just failed to help them stand out and shine.